Me and Midlife Wife and Midlife

[AndrewP]

CT1118 - I thought you might follow me over here. There's a lot of great people here who have a ton of experience and advice. I'm very grateful for what they've already offered on my own thread.

Lots of reading for you to do, not as well organized as either of us would like being the organized researcher sorts but there are gems and nuggets buried everywhere. My current reading is looking for references to "scared squirrels" and "touch and go".

I was thinking about my own list in my introductory post and looking through yours. One thing I think that both of us need to be careful of as we search for answers is like the hypochondriac we may be listing the symptoms that fit the disease we want to have. On the other hand the doctor can't do anything if we just sit there and say "it hurts". I'm not saying that either of us are wrong about thinking we may be dealing with a MLC but we also need to be open to the possibility that we might not be completely right.

With that said - welcome to you my friend and please be as patient and as friendly and open as I know you have been on Newcomers.