Dang -- already need another thread. I was just ranting about people who inject themselves into other people's marriages and get into the ear of a WW, push them along . . . and hoping they all burn in eternal hell fire. Is that bad?
Sounds highly rational to me JR! But I may be slightly biased!
Unfortunately, we can't control who our WWs take advice from. We can, however, control our actions and ourselves and hammer home we're not the monsters our WWs friends are making us out to be. My WW also is getting advice from college friends (who have never met me) to be with OM (whom they all went to college with) and bail on me bc I'm so awful. Taking a "NatGeo" perspective it's all quite absurd and funny (like monkeys throwing poo), but it [censored] when you're stuck in the weeds of this stuff day after day.
Regardless, I wholeheartedly condone the quoted statement from you above! Hang in there brother!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18