MLC, WAW or WW?? Who really knows? Help...pls

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Linda (is it ok that I address you by "Linda" or do you have another preference?)

I can't really go into much detail about the other man, though I know him very well. I just don't want to dwell on him too much, I'm already consumed with jealousy and I'm very bitter about the whole thing.

I can tell you he's been married twice and has a child w/both. Both of his former wives have major issues of their own. Ironically though both cheated on him, wife #1 cheated on him with his BF at the time they split. Though I could see the writing on the wall at a distance, I was completely blind sided when it happened to us. He became one of my closest friends over the past few years as he was always hanging out with us. Both of his wives also were in my opinion abusive toward him, verbally for sure. We really felt true compassion for him. I still do not think he nor W intentionally planned for this to happen, but they still made their own choices. They had to reach a point where they both W&OM conscientiously made a decision to move forward with an illicit relationship. Knowing it was wrong and would cause grief to our family and his relationship with his GF.

Kids are still in school grades 6 thru 12.

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