Tonight is the night to discuss upcoming things. Every time I think about talking to her, I get a pit in my stomach. Why? How can I let someone affect me like that?
Tonight is the night to discuss upcoming things. Every time I think about talking to her, I get a pit in my stomach. Why? How can I let someone affect me like that?
Need to detach. Doing better but still so hard.
You are scared. You have expectations.
It is actually completely normal. Take a deep breath and now you have some goals to work on. IE - no pit in stomach.
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Originally Posted By: SadDad8
What expectations would I be having?
I feel like I'm pretty bad at this.
That she will say or do something that is not what you are expecting. Divorce, separation, in love with another......
sorry...thought that was another DB acronym because it was in caps! haha.
OK I will try to have zero expectations. I really don't know what the reaction will be now anyway. I feel like I don't know her.
Therapist said that due to her past trauma from childhood, she may be validating herself and getting that "love" from the new sexual relationship she is having.
Therapist said that due to her past trauma from childhood, she may be validating herself and getting that "love" from the new sexual relationship she is having.
RIGHT now you don't know her. She has an alien inhabiting her brain, the body is the same but not the brain.
I was really bad at it; in fact, I was a complete pansy. But, my wife taught me well and I learned how to quell the spew. Most of the WW's power is based on your fear; once you've lost that fear, then she's lost her grip on you.
