The only thing I might suggest is that since you brought up L etc, even if you don't want to go that route you should educate yourself about the S and D processes in your area so that you can be as confident on that subject if she starts tossing fairy dust and wishes your way.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
