I'm a newby, so take this with a grain of salt, but I think you did really well. Far better than I would have. I admire your restraint very much. I'll be following along and, hopefully, some vets will stop by and give you a real critique/review.

Hang in there!

Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)