Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 3)

[JRuss]

Just want to say that if there is a hell, and I sort of hope there is, that there ought to be a special wing for The Echo Chamber Enablers, who presume to "advise" WWs, push them along, crowd out any dissenting views ALL WITHOUT KNOWING THE SITUATION FULLY AND WITHOUT EVEN THE HUSBAND ALL THAT WELL. What kind of a pathetic soul inserts themselves into someone else's marriage like that? There can't be anything less knowable than someone else's marriage -- and yet they think they have definitive things to say about it? WTF?

I feel like I can DB and GAL and 180 my head off, but none of it will be noticed at all while these harpies pick at the bones of our marriage. I just feel like I'm going to lose my mind sometimes, or that it's already lost.