I'm going to wish you and Louisa a Happy Birthday early. I do hope that you ladies have something special planned out for next week.
The grieving process is unique for each and every person. Some go through it quickly and others have a slower/longer period. Don't rush the process. You need to work through all of the emotions in order to heal properly.
The challenges we deal w/each and every day help to mold us into the people we are today. Sometimes those challenges help to open our eyes to what is around us, we become more compassionate and understanding of others, we learn patience, become better listeners and when it is all said and done, we become the mentors for the generations that are coming along and we can then provide sage advice and wisdom to those who are willing to listen.
You've had a lot of difficult challenges in the last couple of years. Some have set you back just a wee bit, but you are coming along nicely. You've grown, become more independent and are not afraid to face the world and voice your thoughts and opinions to others. You've come a long way and should be very proud of yourself and what you've accomplished. Never second guess yourself. Do not allow your family to make you feel little, for they are uncomfortable w/the amazing changes/progress you have made.
Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
