Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #3]

[JRuss]

ForGump -- she wants the D to be DIY, right? I think I'm remembering that. What does she say about alimony/child support? That's an extra blow the courts can throw down on dads: pay your ex who blew up your marriage and life while she "looks for a job". That's a complicating factor the courts can throw into the works where you're hoping that a WW feels the impact of the D; they get paid, by you, to "look" for a job, which motivates a lot of people to look very little, unenthusiastically, etc. Just something to consider as you go over your options.

Hang in there -- this all truly [censored].