A new day is approaching

[Irish M]

Hi Lois
Mine pops her head out of the tunnel long enough to show the old her. Then runs right back in

Now I'm only a year in and a year she moved out and hasn't seem the kids. What I would consider as waking up for my XW would be a total break down, crying, asking for help, remorse and apologies.

I only say this because 10 years ago when she had her quarter life crisis that is what she did.

Me helping her would take a long time. She would have a lot of work to do but so will my girls and myself.

I think the next time she pops her head out I won't act the way I did in the past. I see now that I still had a lot of hurt. She can't hurt me anymore. So any sign of her I'll just say "hi"