Understand. I quit texting - email only and only about something that is essential (i.e. money or health crisis).
No contact is much more peaceful and my girls have been disappointed but that is his issue with them. Yes it is sad to accept that you can't shield them from it but stepping away allows you to comfort them without enabling the dysfunctional parent child relationship.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou