remember it's a long road and will most likely get worse but as long as we are the ones doing the driving its as good as it gets.
We are very much in the same position in so many ways I am also at a point where I am truly letting go it feels good and bad at the same time. The thing that helps me keep moving forward is that we do not have the ability to control what they do and regardless of if I let her cake eat or stand my ground she will do what ever she wants until SHE wants to change.
the thing with this is and I can really see it now I believe with my W it make take years before she realizes and by then I will be done. It's a sad reality but I was fine before I met her and I will be fine after she's gone. The one thing like you that hurts me is my D2 and how it affects her. Knowing that both myself and my W will always put my D2 first and she is everything to us I know she will be ok because I will never use her or put myself ahead of her.
It's my only shinning light in an otherwise dim landscape.
Stay strong people this ride will end.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
