It's been 9 months now since my W filed for D. She seems more friendly but we never discuss our marriage or future. I turn up to collect the kids, say hello and leave. Occasionally she will make me a coffee and discuss the girls schooling but nothing more. She did once say that I am a better person than I was but at the time didn't want to reconcile.
Should I carry on and just wait for the D to be made final or say something? I have followed sandi's rules and am more independent than I was at the start. Problem is the rules seem to be about distancing yourself and giving nothing away. My W doesn't seem to react much apart from wonder where I may go of an evening, but she's not that bothered either way.
She has the kids and that seems to be enough for her. She lives in our house and looks after them both, rarely goes out and only sees her mom and sister.
Just drives me nuts that I have to just sit by and say nothing. Is it because she doesn't respect me or is happy the way things are now and doesn't want it to change?
I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?
