Their is nothing wrong with asking. The thing is if she refuses or the counseling fails, you need to keep your EXPECTATIONS low.
Keep having HOPE but zero expectations. OK?
That sounds very difficult. How does a person go about doing such a thing?
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
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