Yes, I've definitely had a few occasions to both vent and cry since the process server event.

Every time I pull into my driveway now, I just keep seeing that white car going around me and blocking me in, now knowing WH was at the helm.

I am up to my eyeballs in this legal morass, and feel like I get caught up with letters and comments and calls to one L or another, only to get behind again a few minutes later. My living room floor is covered with documents and I am just plain tired.

Gotta go to my weekly meeting with my mom.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16