My sitch... I am 8 months post BD. My wife is deep into the grip of an EA and possibly has gone PA, confirmed Jan/2016. I did suspect something a few months earlier but was keeping myself in denial. Our marriage has not been a bad one. Until 1st BD I would have said it was a very good marriage. Since BD and many painful days and conversations after , I really question myself. Either because I should take her spewing seriously or even if there are nuggets of truth in her words and actions, then our marriage of 24 yrs was a fraud.
I failed the early tests by doing the things I should'nt do, crying, pleading.. all the unattractive stuff that only pushed her furter away. I'm doing better now but need advice.
I can give more history but I think that early posts are to be kept short. Correct?
Anyway, I really want to hear from the Vets on this board. I have been reading this board alot and following some of the advice given by Sandi2, Wonka, Cadet, Job and others. I hope to make sense of this and figure out what is the best way to move forward.
ROE 48/WW 49 M24 Childrenx4 BD1 Jan 2016 EA/OM conf'd by WW : BD2 Apr 2016 WW wants S : BD3 May 2016 WW wants D Oct - Separated Dec - PA confirmed Jan 2017 - I file for D / Enough is Enough
