I'm right there with you, Gump, especially about the kids. I feel like my W is looking at D as a way to have 50% less childcare, and I can't sleep nights worrying about what will happen to them. That's her fog -- I know she loves them more than she loves themselves, but I think she's really, really over her current life and feels compelled to shake it up. Maybe I can ride out the storm long enough for her to come to, who knows?
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)