I'm right there with you, Gump, especially about the kids. I feel like my W is looking at D as a way to have 50% less childcare, and I can't sleep nights worrying about what will happen to them. That's her fog -- I know she loves them more than she loves themselves, but I think she's really, really over her current life and feels compelled to shake it up. Maybe I can ride out the storm long enough for her to come to, who knows?


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)