After that night I told her that she would not be sleeping in our MBR if she wanted to just do her own thing. I said "my bed" actually which made her furious. Yes I see that she just manipulated the situation to get out of the bedroom again.
Transparency was not real. She was upset and lied to me about something she said to one of our friends...I questioned it and asked to see the text and she had to admit to lying. She is still guarded with her phone.
I have felt pressure to "make her happy" from the beginning of our R. She doesn't take any responsibility for our R getting to this point. She isn't putting anything into working on us at all and expects me to "go out of my way" for her. Which translates "you make us better while I sit back and do whatever the hell I want". I'm done with that crap. I told her earlier that we need to just work on ourselves and not worry about "us" for now. Which brought on some spewing and fishing for support while doing it. Shes not willing to do anything different to make our situation better.
