Brava, Sotto! So glad you are settling in well and things are going happily along for you.
If I may, I would like to comment on the SS part. As you know from my sitch, I have 3 SDs from my marriage to XH. Fortunately, all 3 are adults and there is no worrying about having to actually see him to see them, but it is hard to separate them from him completely. As Rouky said above, they are a reminder of him. I urge you, though, to embrace your relationship with SS apart from XH. I have done this with the girls and I'm so glad I have a place in their lives still.
Cheers to the new place and all the good going on in your life.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids