My Wife Walked Out 5

[RSG]

Just when I was thinking "I haven't been contacted for a full 24 hrs" she sends a few texts. I'm swamped at work, mainly because I was out but also because we're freaking busy. So I didn't answer. She had asked about how he was doing and if I had spoken to teacher re Audiologist. And why I was on radio silence lol.

Just before I come here, I text her that I'm REALLY busy and wasn't able to talk to his teacher. I'll be less stressed this PM if she has any questions. She empathizes, and asks if she can keep S a little longer this weekend so I can rest. Not sure where the friendliness came from, but I say sure. S will enjoy that too of course.

Was thinking this AM: What would divorce look like to me? What would reconciliation, or an attempt at such, look like? I think these are things I need to start thinking about more, and to possibly write down. Maybe make them a topic of conversation next week at therapy?

As noted in a few other threads, I've tried to maintain a day to day approach. Whether it be w/W, S or work. I'm trying to maximize each day, and also not to freak our or fret about weeks, months or even years into the future. I'm a planner, so it's not easy, but I'm improving.