Hey CA27,

Sorry to read about your situation.

Originally Posted By: CA27

I refuse to do any snooping or spying and haven't done so since I read her texts and confronted her. I've found that putting any energy into snooping is just detrimental to my own mental state.



I definitely agree with you on this, don't do it if you can. It certainly hasn't helped my mental state. Plus, once you start it becomes an addiction of sorts; very difficult habit to break.


Me 50, ExW 49
T21, M13+
S15, S13
BD #1: 25-Jan-2016 (EA confirmed & ILYBINILWY)
Sept-2016 Mediated Sep. starts
Oct-2016 W petitions for D
Jan-2017 R w OM admitted/confirmed
Jun-2018 D'd