CLD I'm sure you will not appreciate me posting here either, as I am very very happily divorced, but just wanted to let you know that this thread is legally NOT your personal property just because you started it. You have absolutely no right to tell others where they can and cannot post.

And P.S. -- Job, Wonka, Cat04, Mach, Eric, Cadet, Bond, URWorthy, Ginger (under her former name) etc, helped me to save my sanity and self respect, which were both pretty much non-existent, after living with my MLC ex for so long. I'd started to believe him when he told me and anyone else who would listen that 100% of the problems in my marriage were due to me and that he was not having an affair. I'm sure you will not take advice from a divorced woman but if I were you, I'd beg their forgiveness, and welcome their advice.


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17