Not listening to people who don't see things or do exactly as you do is called IGNORANCE. What you listed above are not values. Values are lost on you.
If you treated your wife as disrespectfully as you do to the posters here who gave up their free time, their patience with you, their valuable insight, well, there is no shock she left. She saved herself.
Enjoy waiting around. it will be for the rest of your life if you remain as ignorant and disrespectful as you have proven yourself to be.
