Thank you for posting on my thread NYGal and it's good to hear from you. I have always been told that actions are louder than words: your W goes to counselling with you, and to me it says that she wants to work on your relationship.
You need to give her time as she is also dealing with her own demons. In the grand scheme of things, it's not that long that you have been back together, give her and you some time to heal.
You are doing great and piercing from what I have gathered here is a slow process.
