I almost never post anymore - and I can't believe I'm getting sucked in here - but here goes..
First of all - I doubt you have any interest in what I have to say because I'm a woman who didn't save her marriage - but I have been employed as a statistician and data miner at various points in my (successful) career, so there's that......
Dude- as bluntly as it can be said - you are casually tossing off some of the very best advice you could be getting. I can't believe the number of people who have taken the time to post detailed, thoughtful, meaningful advice to you. It's such a gift and you're just throwing it away.
Much like Wonka - I have wondered what you are even doing here - you don't seem open to anyone else's point of view, seem entrenched in your own plan to save your marriage (which appears to consist of waiting and praising your wife) and keep repeating things that have not been said - such as people encouraging you to date someone else. FYI, GAL stands for "Get a Life" not "Get a Lady".
Finally I have to ask - you clearly have a high opinion of yourself, are a self proclaimed successful real estate entrepreneur, claim to look 10 years younger than you are, casually insult whole groups of people, and double down when people call you on it, disregard good advice from people with more experience than you and cling to simple solutions to complex problems.
