Thanks CT and Gump. It is a step forward, I really didn't expect her to say that...
My therapist definitely talked about listening vs fixing things, and she says I'm really improving there. Also, I've seen it criticized in some circles, but one thing Men are From Mars Women are from Venus drives home is this dichotomy. I think W notices how I don't offer solutions anymore, but I also try to speak that way around other women so it becomes a habit rather than something I'm practicing.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.