I've been working on REALLY not thinking about ww's behavior and OM and I think it helps. I thought I knew the concept but wasn't doing it. Thanks again Sara.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om