She's gone. Living in the now.

[Zues126]

Scrant,
A lot of people here just want to argue with you and make you feel worthless and put all the blame on you. Don't listen to them, be patient, your wife will come back and you will be happier than ever, you just have to believe that she will.

I'm not sure if this was aimed at me but there haven't been many other substantial posts lately...so just in case, let me clarify to Scrant- My message was one of optimism.