SadDad8 - 180 means that if you are doing something that doesn't work - try the opposite. If what you are doing is getting you the results you want - keep doing it.
On your earlier point, there is no fair - there is only what happens.
You can get through this - but you will need to be strong and focused on being the best SadDad8 you can be - or perhaps a GreatDad99 instead?
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells