Thanks everyone for your comments and support. I've been off the forum for a while and also out of contact with W as well. Focus I'm more impressed with how you deal with everything to be honest. Since I met W for a drink we haven't had any sort of contact. S went to W's village with her and one of his friends for a few days. I went back to UK to spend time with my parents which was nice. S and his friend spent their time either sleeping or partying in nearby villages. Normal for a European teenager! I've spoken to him since and I have the sensation that he had little contact with W, even though the three of them shared a room. We've had some quiet days at home, S has been good company and affectionate. He's met up a couple of times with his mother in the last ten days for a coffee or a meal. Tomorrow we are off to London for a few days together. I'm looking forward to it but at the back of mind it brings back memories of trips together as a family. I really find it hard to understand how W is happy to give up her son and husband for what she has now. I know I can't do anything to change things and I have to live my own life but it really saddens me to think that W is happier now without us.
