Just got home with D. Instantly isolated and criticized by W for:
1) staying an extra 2 hours today, even though I told her we may and she did not object 2) feeding D pizza for breakfast that had been sitting out overnight. Correct story is that I put the pizza in the mini fridge overnight. Microwaved it this am and D and I had a blast eating pizza for breakfast. W apparently asked D if the pizza was sitting out and D told her she didn't know. W interpreted that as there was not a fridge. 3) not giving D enough water during trip. I made sure D drank enough water. W pressed D for how many times she went to the bathroom. D said 3. Apparently that's not enough.
I made the mistake of asking D in front of W about the fridge. Probably should not have pulled her into it. I also asked my W quietly to not poke at me after we had such a good stand safe time.
W pulled me into the garage and Ran through the list above. She stopped talking. I asked if she was done. She said yes. I started talking and then she cuts me off and says I cut her off. She said it's ridiculous that I would act this way when she apologized for accusing me about the pizza (she never did). And that if I wouldn't let her talk then this is done. I just stepped aside and let her go back inside.
Mini fridge is 4th bullet point down on the right. I'd ask that you please just ask me and not accuse me going forward. I'm more than willing to admit my mistakes, but that was not one.
I know the past day has been stressful for you being away from her. I hope the updates helped. I understand how hard it is not to be around her all the time.
I'm sorry for not discussing the time we were leaving with you. I should have been more clear in my message that we locked up the bag with the phone. Id like to discuss the meds with you bc I need to understand today's situation since I'll be on my own with her a lot more in the future. "
This seems so ridiculous that it's starting to make me wonder if all this is worth it. W seems to revert to anything she can to make me look like a bad dad and husband and keep her story about how awful I am going. Unsure how to keep dealing with nonsense like this and keep sane.
By the way, W was complaining that we didn't eat healthy enough and she's now heating up pizza to feed D for dinner. It's like I'm living in the twilight zone. She also has said the following few things multiple times over the past hour since we got back:
1) D, feel how hairy my legs are 2) I dint know when the last time I shaved my legs was 3) I only left the house once, to get wine and chocolate so I could stay up late watching movies 4) the house is super clean bc I spent all day yesterday and today cleaning it 5) don't make a mess bc all I did was clean while you two were gone
W is going to extremes to show that she did nothing with OM while I was gone. She is very blatant in her statements about OM with me. Unsure why she'd feel the need to prove stupid stuff like this. She should read a book about knowing when someone is lying. I think tell #1 is they provide an excessive amount of detail.
Oh well. D and I had an amazing time today too and I won't let WW spoil that! Realizing I can do this single dad thing, but still need a lot of practice. D seems very happy!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
