Just makes her paranoid and impulsive, I think....
I hope you'll take a look at the Esther Perel Ted Talk. I think she's right on about the paradox of both closeness & distance being needed in a marriage ...
Also, I've been thinking about the idea of staring in the other person's eyes for 4 minutes ... (mentioned in the "15 Things..." article above).
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final