No, it's not next to nothing, but it's about which shape you should get bent into. It should be something functional.

And have patience. She's in counseling with you, she's open about when they meet, she's in a process as well. You're together and she says she felt nothing towards OW. Hopefully that is true.

Look more for things like pulling away emotionally from you, shutting you out, being secretive or erratic in her behavior. If you think back, you probably know what to look for.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17