Painter, when W first called she said they barely spoke. Then in therapy she said they chatted. Then later in therapy she said it was just an awkward hello, so I don't really know what to believe. I think at one point she said they said nothing, so the story kept changing.
The part about feeling nothing then feeling anger at ow's entitlement came out during therapy. At first I thought -- nothing, you felt nothing when this witch sat down next to you?????? But then she clarified that nothing meant no emotion, no thrill, nothing. I don't know if I entirely believe that, but I do want to believe her when she says she wants nothing to do with ow.

I realize I'm getting all bent out of shape for next to nothing, and that others on here are dealing with a lot worse, so I really do appreciate any input I can get. Thanks, everyone.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat