The new complication in our sitch is that I have moved back in (8/16). My spree of housesitting opportunities has run out. After sitting down with W, we determined that we don’t have enough income for two households unless/until she increased her salary, but she wants to continue with her school. I agreed to come back and live in separate room in our house for as long as it takes her to finish her degree, but that I won’t be in an open marriage and that I will stay for as long as neither of us is dating or involved with other people. She agreed to this and we also agreed to check in month to month to make sure the arrangement was still going well. She remains adamant in the fact that she does not want to work on repairing the marriage.
I am sorting out how to positively make use of the fact that I am back home to DB, but also dealing with the stress of being back around my WW. Have been working on detaching, GAL (hitting the gym constantly) and going out to socialize. Still figuring which 180s will work best in improving my sitch.
So happy to be closer to my S though!
Hello CA27,
I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.
It sounds like your wife is wanting to cake eat in a major way. She wants the financial/insurance benefits of being married without being in an actual marriage.
Knowing what to do and what not to do at this point is crucial. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
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