Not much to report - thank you again for all your kind words and great confidence in me.
I've been busy with my new temp job, which works great for me right now, and all my other activities. Son and I hung one of my paintings over my bed yesterday and it really works well with the color scheme.
I also talked to a L who I think I can work really well with. He has a small practice and only takes on as many clients he feels comfortable with to where he can give them proper attention. He called me back the same day (not the norm in my experience). I got some very valuable information from him so it looks like I won't have to file for a D first. That is a relief, I thought I had to. Now I can just sit back and wait but have a strategy in place for what to do if WH files.
Otherwise I have dinner planned with a friend for Friday, afternoon coffee with another on Saturday, and many, many things on my to-do list, both work and personal. Staying busy helps, but WH, and to a degree OW are still on my mind a lot. First thing when I wake up and last thing when I fall asleep. I guess everything becomes a habit.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17