Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #3]

[AndrewP]

ForGump - I took a moment and did a quick spot-check back in your threads but probably missed a bit. If I understand it correctly
- W has had 2 EA that are ended
- W may or may not be in a PA
- W is a SAHM
- W has not specifically said that she's looking for a D
- W may or may not be in the middle of a MLC

Is this correct? If not - does she seem to look to a future with or without you? For me my WW was positive that there was no future for us together and actively rejected any plans more than a few months out. Even though she was "sure" she was leaving she did very little to actually jump but would make little steps towards it and then stop like bringing home boxes and then hiding them. The actual mechanism around S and D was a complete mystery to her even though she had seen a sort of L already.

Are you seeing any baby steps for departure? Is she rejecting any plans beyond a particular time horizon? Do you think she has a vision of what a life that doesn't have you in it would be? If the answer to all of these is "no" you may be farther up the path than you might think yourself to be. Perhaps a direction change might be possible. If the answer is "yes" to one or more of these - then yes - wear clean underpants because a bomb could drop at any moment.