Hi Cheesy, I'm so sorry about the dog. I'm glad you had the chance to validate her feelings of grief. When something like that happens and she reaches out to you, I think that's the right time to be there for her. These things aren't normal day to day b.s. The loss of a pet is serious, and so, again, I'm glad you were able to connect with her. To be withdrawn at a time like that, IMHO, is not a good strategy. Those are the moments when we're the only ones who can comfort and reassure. I think that's exactly the time to be there. No games, no DBing, just offering the support she needs. You can go back to DBing later.
You handled it well.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
