W has agreed to tell me when ow contacts her or when they run into each other. And I knew they would be in that meeting together because my boss attends it too and I have the list of attendees.

She said that when ow sat next to her she felt nothing. Which she saw as a good thing. I may see her as Satan personified, but W says she feels nothing -- maybe a little anger that ow feels so entitled that she can sit down next to her. She swears they said nothing beyond hello, and that it was awkward.

I've decided I need to just be as positive and content and happy as I can, and be the person she'd be a fool to leave (or even look away from.) Since I can't control the stupid other woman (sow) I just have to work on myself. I also intend to be a bit more independent so W knows she has to stay on her toes, too.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat