((Bump)), I'm so sorry. It seems like you are always waiting for the next BD. But as you say the longer you drag it out the more time you have with your kids, the only thing is that you are having to cope with your W's cold demeanour. IS is so hard....
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')