newbie. sep 6months. Little hope for reconcilation

[Cherry]

I wouldn't acknowledge the anniversary at all. It was mine at the weekend, neither of us mentioned it. In his head we are already divorced (this is what he told me). So I completely left it.

And yeah, you will notice the strangest of behaviour. That's why it's so important we detach because it will send you gaga! My h is up, down, left, right all over the joint. That's why we stay steady and constant. You never quite know what to expect from them next. If it wasn't our lives and relationships it could almost be humourous some of the crazy sh!t they say and do!