I realize this really hurts but I just keep coming back to your lawyer. He's getting paid to make the best case for you. *He* should have done his homework on who the judge is and her disposition, *he* should have known what the possible issues are w/ your financial statements, *he* should have represented those issues in the best light, *he* should have anticipated how your DB activities & letters might have been used against you.
I think you have to have some tough conversations w/ your lawyer. Maybe consider another one.
I agree completely. I do not think I got adequate representation. My problem is, I can't afford another L now. I've already paid my L's fees. My L said my W's L doesn't like to go to court and it shows. I responded by she did a damn good job of sticking it to me with her "ineptitude". We did not see the information beforehand. We didn't get it until 30 minutes before the hearing. I don't know if that's normal or not, so there really wasn't time to do anything.
My L had great reviews on multiple sites and I felt comfortable with her. I just felt I was on my own in the courtroom.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day