I agree with you, Irish. Situations are all different. Having said that I will not put another woman in front of my children, I will just stay single and have a relationship with my children instead. My main goal right now is to make enough money so that they can run my business someday or go to college if they wish to do so. Preserving their emotional well being is also a high priority so that they won't have problems with their relationships when they grow up or develop mental illnesses.
