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[Irish M]

I don't agree on the above Cld.
No 2 situations are the same and no 2 people are the same.
There are too many factors. Similar actions and behaviour traits yes. But the core of the person is determined but so much more.

Age, gender, upbringing, metal and physical health.
Many have other issues such as ADD, anxiety, bi polar, alcohol/ substance abuse, ADHD, eating disorders, paranoia, schizophrenia, and I could go on

Add hormonal imbalance.

OM/OW, enablers.

Now top that off with you. The LBS.
Some of us are calm and loving, some controling and jealous.
We have our own issues as per the lists above that played a roll in this. We didn't cause it but we didn't help it either.

Please don't try to map your W by compairing it to other W's that went MLC

2 yrs, 4yrs , 7yrs or maybe forever
Don't waste your time waiting .

If she comes out of it and wants back you will have grown so much that you might chose to continue your own path and not take her back.