My ex too loved going to the police with false claims. It was the police who came to me to warn me that there was something wrong with her. When she changed she got shark eyes, couldn't look at me. My kids are older 14 and 16. They also saw that their mom was gone. I
Irish, Same here! She made several false claims in court: 1. that if she tried to divorce me I would kill her 2. that I would take the kids out of the country 3. that if child protective service ever came I would lock and load and much more.... She got shark eyes as well and can't look at me in the eyes! The judge understood that there was something wrong with her and ordered a psychological evaluation and the results were: 1. Her mom divorced her father out of the blue when she was 7 (my daughter now is 7 and she is doing the same to me) 2. She has intrusive thoughts 3. She has mild schizophrenia, the tends to distort reality 3. She has mild anxiety 4. She tends to see things black and white with a self-righteous stance
I have read that the length of the MLC is directly proportional to the amount of NC, in other words, the more we ignore them and let them to their thing, the faster they will come out of the MLC. Also I have read that when they do come back, they will apologize for everything under the sun and they will work very hard to restore the relationship, and that's when we need to be accepting to them.
