A WW? (3)

[Surfer]

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Away with D8 and S6 too. Day 2 now.

Yesterday full, beach, sea, ice cream, dodgems, roller coasters, rides to the max - incl haunted house which didn't go down so well as they had to go in a car for 2 alone. Big tears. We have had a great time so far, dinner playground and a show to end I all followed by tv and a cuddle.

Now ready for day 2.

You are clearly a good dad and despite fades fears and others over narcissism, this is a serious personality disorder and I think it is pretty rare. Acting in a narcissistic way is different and we can all be capable of that. So fears that she is going to go neuclear on accusations court etc. You will have a good idea of what she might do. More than others. My WW has similar behaviour to yours and I don't record too much. Why it's like a negative prophecy that you will make come true. Just react carefully, as you are and you will be fine - unless things do change.

So I had her telling the kids, you can call me every day etc. Although we are all going dark on this break I have decided. Got a text saying presume you got there last nigh with a spot of temp testing. Just said "yes sorry just tucking them in". Got a "thanks". That's the sum total until Friday PM now. Nothing more.

Also got the "bummed" point. Felt the same. Kids have mentioned it too. We have all left that behind. Too much fun.

Re: demanding standards. Do you have examples. I have lots and lots. Kids need suncream whilst away at least 3 times a day - factor 50 plus face sun block and sun suits. "Get fu**ed" was my 'inside voice' it's going to be 75f max and overcast. Factor 50 once a day max. There is so much in terms of demanding standards which I think is control. It does on normally. But the list prior to leaving was long. I just validated the nosey neighbour so I could get rid and then thought 'looser, happier parenting" here we come.

Just going to have a great time. Enjoy. Leave her to it don't contact her until you are back. At least the house will be tidy if not for you for the D when you get back - after all that vacuuming. Thr house must be the size of a castle if it's going to take that many hours of vacuuming........

Surfer.