Think about it this way. When you were single, what were the things that made you happy? Do more of that. What I did was take my Ds to the places and did things that my W would never have agreed to. It got me closer to them in ways I never thought possible.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.