Very close to giving up

[PsySara]

I did everything wrong before DBing, I snooped, obsessed and became extremely insecure and demanded WH's every move. It did not cool the relationship between WH and OW but rather appeared to make her forbidden fruit and thus more desirable. So I started filling my schedule up to the eyeballs with GAL activities. I returned to my more confident self, with occasional slip of ruminating and obsessing. But after learning some mindfulness techniques and finding distractions I definitely became more confident and focused on myself. This had the effect of helping me emotionally and strangely enough, making me more desirable to WH.