Zeus, you want to know the crazy part? I'm too nice and have some grace upon me that even though my wh has absolutely crushed me and deserves all he gets. I don't want to ruin him to the point that he is unable to live. How crazy is that?! So many people tell me to take him for all he has. But I can't do that, at the end of the day, although he needs to feel the consequences for his actions, I don't want to leave him to the point he can barely afford to live or afford food. Child support I'll take, spousal support though, I don't know if I would get that. I work for a good company and will get paid maternity full salary for 9 months, then I will return back to work and work my ass off and show my kids that I work damn hard for all we have.

We had the D talk tonight, i told him I kinda wish I could be the scorned woman and take him for all he's got. But it's just not me, I'm feisty, but I'm not conniving.

Sometimes having morals just wants to kick you up the @ss!

Last edited by Cadet; 08/30/16 08:49 AM.
Me 26 H 25
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Baby born 4/14
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