Originally Posted By: ForGump
RDS, what was your L's explanation for how this turned out?


My L said the big reason was the judge's concern about the financial declaration discrepancy and my W's obvious physical pain she was in. My W had emergency surgery this past weekend, and she was in the hospital earlier this month so she played that out to the hilt.

I guess the judge has seen a lot of men try to hide assets from their wives and she punishes men who try to do that. I honestly did not try to hide anything because I knew it could bite me in the ass. I was clear and concise as I could be with my financial statement. That's why trying to come up with the money is devastating to me. I honestly don't have an extra $3k to pay my W a month and still pay everything else.

My cash flow is now in the negative. I don't have enough money to pay all bills. My W is the one who put us in this situation, yet I'm the one paying the price. It boggles the mind.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day